Monday, August 24, 2009

KOBE vs Ben.. Double Standard or Different Circumstances? What do you think?



I have an ongoing debate with several friends of mine. They claim Kobe was tried in the court of public opinion, and lost his endorsements, "primarily" due to the fact he cheated on his wife. I seem to recall SEVERAL media outlets painting him as a proverbial sexual deviate, typical urban athlete turned millionaire, rapist, and Sodomite, that only cared about ingratiating/pleasuring himself.

In the forum of "morality", while cheating on your wife is without question more serious than indiscriminately having sex (as a single man). They were both "ACCUSED" of a "CRIME"........ And that was the basis of Kobe's ridicule. No one gave a DAMN about his wife, or the fact he was married. Take a look at the articles below, NOT ONE OF THEM mention infidelity as a basis for their criticism. Not saying they didn't exist. I'm just saying, that was not the focal point of the criticism he received, the loss of endorsements, or the fallout that ensued.

Is ESPN trying to preserve its relationship with Roethlisberger?
Posted by Mike Florio on July 21, 2009 12:38 PM ET

The current lead item on Deadspin focuses in part on ESPN's decision not to mention the case, but it's still not clear why. We've been trying to get an explanation directly from Bristol, but to no avail.


REMEMBER KOBE WAS ARRESTED BASED ON AN ALLEGATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The primary criticism was NOT based on him "cheating on his wife".

Sheriff sticks to his guns on Kobe. A day after the Kobe Bryant rape case collapsed, the lawman who made the controversial decision to arrest him a year ago insisted he has no regrets and said he would do it all again.


What If Kobe Bryant Has Been Falsely Accused?
Why the Law of Acquaintance and Date Rape Should Seriously Penalize False Reports
By JONNA M. SPILBOR
Monday, Aug. 11, 2003

This phenomenon of "conviction before trial" is especially acute in Bryant's case. One of his current sponsors, Nutella, has already pulled out because of the present allegations. Will Nutella re-sign him to an endorsement contract if he is ultimately acquitted? It's doubtful - and in any case, Bryant's pride may counsel him not to accept

Meanwhile, it's become clear that the prosecutors are going after Bryant with a vengeance. Eagle County District Attorney Mark Hurlbert asked for an additional $105,000 from the state budget to cover anticipated expenses in this matter. The budget Commissioner not only granted his wish, but went further, allotting him $150,000 dollars, nearly a third more than requested, so he would have a "buffer."

At Bryant's hearing, 75 news organizations and more than 300 media employees stumbled over each other to get a scoop. When the trial heats up, they'll be out in even bigger force. And they will again take their cue from the tabloids, elevating into hard news any kinky kink·y

**** Some may accredit the hype surrounding Kobe to his Global celebrity status, but Ben is a 2 time SuperBowl champion, and his case was reduced to a relative footnote. ****

But one thing has been reasonably clear from the get-go: The prosecution never had a strong case. It was riddled with inconsistencies and evidence that challenged the accuser’s story. It was highly unlikely that 35-year-old District Attorney Mark Hurlbert and his equally youthful staff could have convinced a jury of Bryant’s guilt, even if the young woman had not decided at the last minute that she didn’t want to proceed with the case.

Some other sources see the gamesmanship of the Bryant prosecution as proof a prosecutor succumbed to the allure of convicting a public figure at the expense of common sense. The GJ Sentinel, in Colorado, takes the person who made the decision to indict Bryant to task.


It's convenient that you guys say it was about infidelity now, but at the time, infidelity was NOT the bone of contention. Did Guiliani not cheat on his wife? Gov. Mark Sandford? Sen. Edwards? Brad Pitt? John (from John & Kate + 8}? Sen. Foley? How many prominent members of society get outed for cheating on their wives and they go on with their lives as if it's just a bump in the road? They face ridicule, but they are seldom "arrested" on hearsay, or frivolous accusations. Compelling evidence MUST be presented.

Black ppl have long been victims of GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT. The difference here is how the media and law view the "allegations". With Kobe they went hard body immediately. All they needed was proof he had sex, all the "facts" would get sorted out, AFTER THE FACT.

Meanwhile, minorities get crucified the "INSTANCE" a rape allegation is made. I am clear headed on this one guys, and I know, cause I had a family member experience this kind of scrutiny as the result of a false allegation. He too was arrested and was tried in the court of public opinion, until he was able to prove his innocence in a court of law. Only difference is, he wasn't famous, so he didn't lose any endorsements. At the end of the day, both Ben and Kobe are both role models, and the reaction to the allegation should have been the same.



WHAT DO YOU THINK?????????????????

Thursday, August 13, 2009

RE: WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL



The reasons relationships fail are primarily due to a LACK of sacrifice, understanding, and compromise, {{{PERIOD}}}. You and I often go back and forth over this issue, but I believe, for all intents and purposes, that we are on the same track. We just define the consequences differently.


When a relationship is new, there are temptations, fear, and doubt, but we "willfully" overcome those hurdles because we are "interested" in the person, and we're willing to sacrifice, understand, and compromise in order to move the relationship forward.


But you know how the saying goes, "Familiarity breeds contempt", that doesn't apply just to relationships; it applies to all aspects of our social welfare. When we get "comfortable" it is usually accompanied by a "lack of appreciation/understanding" which ultimately leads to a lack of both sacrifice and compromise.


Do your own inquiry, and try to determine at what point past relationships failed. I guarantee either you or your partner began to play the power struggle, began thinking selfishly, communication broke down, or, ALL OF THE ABOVE, in some form or fashion.


I'm not saying the "Devil" doesn't exist, but sometimes his "existence", relative to our problems, are a matter of perception and/or your willingness to accept things you cannot change and/or your willingness to compromise {negotiate} with the one you love in order to move the relationship forward.


Sounds like I'm simplifying the issue? Try to incorporate those 3 principles, the next time you're at odds with anyone you’re close to or intimate with. You'll gain a whole new appreciation for the difficulty of the situation once you're in the heat of the moment.


Many of us are not "inherently Evil", and we all basically want the same things out of a relationship LOVE-Security-Success, but we should never lose sight of SACRIFICE UNDERSTANDING & COMPROMISE. In good times it's easy to roll with the punches, but when the ish hits the fan, that's when your "True Character" and the "True Barometer" of your affection is DEFINED.

To each his own.........


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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

GENDER WARS.... THE SAGA CONTINUES

WHAT DO YOU THINK??

Please leave {MATURE} comments if you feel strongly about the subject.

I debate my peoples on this issue all the time. The women are often stuck in some type of chivalrous fantasy, unconvinced, or in denial, but as time passes by the facts/statistics are undeniable. The women of today are not like Grandma, or even Moms for that matter. Ladies, the ERA movement has worked so well, it is OFFICIALLY a level playing field now. So act accordingly.

When a man assaults a woman {i.e. C Breezy} he is automatically labeled public enemy number one. Although we hold an unflattering share of the blame in the "PAST", nowadays men can find themselves caught up in some shit, without a window to throw it out of {{{{EZ}}}}}.

At what point would this dude's retaliation be justified? After she ripped open an artery? Shot him? Cut his penis off? FWYH, if that was me, I'm going to jail!!!!!

Like I was telling my girl the other day, I am so glad women are not stronger than men, because A LOT of men would be getting pounded out on the regular, I assure you. Psycho women nowadays are often calculating, manipulative, conniving, and grimy. They say make better choices, but you seldom know what you’re dealing with until you been with someone for a while, or live with them.

I know, I know….... They always say "Just leave her", or, "bounce until she cools off", but anyone that has ever been in a passionate/drama filled/up and down relationship knows it is seldom that easy to just walk away.

I take no pleasure in being vindicated; I only want us to have an OPEN and HONEST discussion. I know men are stronger, but that's irrelevant. Whether or not I am stronger than a particular Man, Woman, or Child, I feel EVERY individual should RESPECT themselves, and if someone assaults you, {{{{REGARDLESS}}}}, you are within your right to defend yourself.

We could break up afterwards, but in the "heat" of the moment I'm serving up two piece sandwiches. You may say I'm wrong, but if you don't want to get punched in the mouth, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF, PERIOD!!!!. It's really quite simple.

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Both men and women CAN be abusive, although we paved the way, you ladies are making up ground QUICKLY!!!



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Sara Stokes was arrested earlier last week for stabbing her husband three times as her children watched. The police have reported that she and her husband Tony were arguing and she slipped and fell and began stabbing her husband:

The former singer from Diddy’s MTV reality show “Making the Band 2″ has once again made the cut — but cops say this time Sara Stokes was using a knife … to stab her own husband.

We know what you’re thinking, “someone must’ve beat the crap out of this woman” — but according to cops, it was the exact opposite.

This bloody mug shot was taken after Stokes was arrested for domestic violence August 2 at their home in Moreno Valley, CA.

According to law enforcement sources, Sara stormed out of the house after arguing with husband Tony — she tripped, fell down and accused him of doing it.

We’re told Sara — who hurt her head in the fall — grabbed a knife and stabbed Tony in the arm — while their 3 kids watched.

Paramedics and cops came and Stokes was arrested for assault with a deadly weapon and domestic violence. The D.A. is deciding whether to charge her.

Sara’s lawyer, Eric Kayira, tells us, “Sara and Tony have a very passionate and loving relationship that on August 2, while having an evening of fun, she slipped and fell, hitting her head heavily on the ground and somehow in the process of helping her Tony got injured.”

I remember she was head over heels for him on the second season of Making The Band

Monday, August 10, 2009

TRUE BLOOD {Diplomacy & Intelligence} over BULLETS


I took a few days in between hearing about the release of Laura Ling and Euna Lee, because I was waiting to hear from the Right Wing.  Maybe we should send a Box Set of the True Blood series to every Napoleon complex, Birther, and self serving Radical Extremist for a bit of enlightenment. Perhaps it could permeate the titanium armored ignorance/rhetoric that has been deeply embedded into their souls/psyches.     

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Needless to say, 5 days after Fmr. President Clinton’s successful trip, I’m still waiting….   Besides some garbage about U.S. “apologizing” to the North Koreans, this story has been reduced to a relative footnote, just like Tehran, but make no mistake about it, the Administrations approach to these separate, but equally volatile issues was handled quietly, sophisticated, and above all else, diplomatically. 

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....North Korea.... doesn’t think we’re weak as a result of the negotiations.  This act of diplomacy will not prompt them to ratchet up their nuclear program, or launch preemptive strikes against the West.  On the contrary, maybe we will FINALLY, after 60 years of senseless political posturing, engage in civil and sensible dialogue.  While we’re at it, let’s lift the embargos on ....Cuba.... too. 

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Just like the Iranian election fiasco.  The best thing we could have EVER done was extricate ourselves from the conversation.  Why inflame an already volatile situation with “empty” or “provocative” rhetoric, which would have done nothing but justify every Middle Eastern Radical/Extremists perception of the West.  Not much in the headlines now about this story either.

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It would have been disingenuous, lest we forget about our own voting fraud (er fiasco) just a few years back.

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I only wish every single Extremist around the globe (particularly those under 40) could watch the entire True Blood series.  It is refreshing to see the message of TOLERANCE delivered so cleverly on a prime time platform.  Last night’s episode epitomizes the strength that is displayed when someone (something) so supremely powerful and formidable uses diplomacy instead of bullets to settle a dispute. 

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It displayed how much character it takes to utilize this approach, and how it can even make some of your most loyal subjects conspire against you….   But guess what, if they are treasonous, envious, conniving, or power hungry opportunists, it’s better you get rid of them sooner rather than later anyway. 

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When a powerful entity (i.e. Godrick) governs in a compassionate but firm manner it only makes it stronger.  Had we taken this approach to ....Iraq...., our unemployment numbers are probably halved right now, or better.  WE WILL NEVER LIBERATE THE MIDDLE EAST WITH BULLETS. Many people in that region have been suffering longer than most of us have been alive.  Death is often a welcomed consequence. 

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I’m not saying we should not retaliate with every single weapon in the arsenal {{{IF WE ARE ATTACKED DIRECTLY BY A NATION/COUNTRY}}}, but many more lives and resources will be saved if we just learned to dispute our differences diplomatically.  Not only does it make you stronger, but it also gives you an unquestioned upper hand if the need for force ever arises.  

I continue to HOPE we will evolve as Global Citizens and not as adversaries, driven by some ideologues thirst for power, hatred or insecurity.  Our collective futures may very well depend on it.  When will we learn, only the “people” suffer when we relent to fear and demagoguery.  FWYH, it takes far more strength and character to govern justly, especially when you are “CLEARY” stronger than your adversary.  The masses got it twisted.  WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!!!!!!

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Sincerely,

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Monday, July 27, 2009

OPEN LTR: THE BIGGEST FORM OF RACISM/HATRED IS INBRED & SELF INFLICTED.........











Much was made about the Harvard professor who was arrested in his own home last week, but incidents like the Vernon Forrest tradgedy infuriates me more than any racist, cowardly, ignorant bastard could, EVER!!!

I'm by no means excusing or belittling the acts of racism/prejudice that ALL people from various backgrounds/races/creeds/sexual orientation/etc are subjected to, but particularly when it comes to the plight of Black People...... All too often, WE ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMY!!!

Why do we continuously betray, rob, steal from, and kill each other for insignificant gains?? Why do we find it so easy to accost, and hate on each other, very often, without "legitimate" provocation. I'm all for getting "GULLY" when it's warranted, but to do this to a member of the Black Community who was actually "trying" to do the right thing is INEXCUSEBLE, and should be punishable by DEATH if they have unmitigated PROOF, once the perpetrators are caught.

We could use vile remarks to castigate those in power, those who use that power/badge irresponsibly, or those who fan the flames of Hatred with ignorant rhetoric/laws/policies, but if we continue to DESTROY each other simultaneously, as we do all around the world, the UNEQUIVOCAL culprit is "US". There's no way we would be subjected to this level of abuse if we didn't routinely commit some of the most vile acts against ourselves. This goes all the way back to the motherland.

This level of IGNORANCE should be unilaterally DENOUNCED by the Black community. We should no longer provide safe haven {i.e. Stop Snitching}, or compassion when these so called "Thugs/Gangstas" senselessly take ANYONE'S life, but especially, one of our own. We should react with the same type of passion, and relentless protest/vigilance, as when a caucasian person is the defendant. Not taking action is the greatest form of cowardice. I would shoot ppl like this myself if I had a licensed gun, and I wouldn't feel one OUNCE of remorse either.

I don't care what "THEY" say, if you know someone, or witness someone who knocks an old lady down and takes off with her purse, or senselessly rapes, assaults, shoots, or KILLS someone {{without provocation}} turn their FN asses in ASAP!!!!!!!!! We need to take back our communities and ensure it is safe for a Black person to be prosperous and walk amongst his/her own people without CONSTANTLY being a target.

It is far more cowardly to protect the lives, act on behalf of, or pretend to uphold some type of CODE when it comes to these punk ass n!&&@$ {That's right I said it, call them what they are, it's justified in this instance},

We'll never totally eradicate IGNORANCE or VIOLENCE, but we can set a tone of INTOLERANCE for this type of BS.... We should POLICE ourselves so that the "man" does not have the opportunity to intervene and dictate how we should remedy the problems in our households/communities.

Hasn't 400 years of blood sweat and tears taught a thing? IDGAF!!!!! I truly despise/hate people that commit these types of crimes, ESPECIALLY, when it's Black on Black. If you're really a thug, go rob a bank, or a brinks truck. While I don't condone that behavior either, without a doubt it's far more lucrative, but it takes wayyy more BALLS, risk to your freedom and your LIFE, to do that.

I will speak out against this type of ignorance WHENEVER I get the chance. I am confident I am in the right of way. In this instance, no weapon formed against me shall prosper, I am not AFRAID, and I am willing to die for what I believe in.

THE INSANITY HAS TO STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TAKE BACK OUR STREETS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sincerely,
Blaq Ops



Vernon Forrest One of True Good Guys

Posted Jul 26, 2009 11:01PM By Kevin Blackistone (RSS feed)

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Vernon ForrestThe truth is that, often times, those of us in this business find ourselves struggling to say only good things about a recently deceased personality whose acts in life demanded that we make him or her known to the public. With Vernon Forrest, it seemed to be the opposite.

It is not manufactured hyperbole for the purpose of being polite that you are hearing and reading such wonderful things about Forrest, a three-time boxing champ who we learned Sunday was fatally shot Saturday night in a carjacking attempt in Atlanta. A more famous Atlanta fighter, Evander Holyfield, may be most well-known as the Real Deal, but there was absolutely nothing phony about the good guy who was Forrest. As HBO Sports president Ross Greenburg, whose network carried many of Forrest's bouts, told the Associated Press on Sunday of Forrest: "He was one of the most gracious and charitable fighters in boxing and he will be missed by the entire boxing community and all of his friends at HBO."

Forrest will be missed most, however, by people beyond the ring -- people who need people, as the old Barbra Streisand song goes.

Forrest told this story any time he was asked. It goes that he was hanging out at the home of a friend who worked with the psychologically and emotionally challenged. (How novel is that? He wasn't hanging out at the strip club or dogfighting ring.) He watched one of those in his friend's stead, an autistic child, who Forrest said struggled for an hour to tie his shoes.

Forrest said he became so frustrated watching the child fight to do something most of us take for granted that he could no longer take it for granted. His friend refused to help the child because the friend hoped the child would break through alone. The child's battle broke Forrest, however, and Forrest eventually helped the child tie his shoes. Then Forrest set out to help others with similar struggles.

"If you sit there and watch a person take about an hour to tie his shoestrings, then you realize that whatever problems you got ain't that significant," Forrest recounted to the New York Times in August 2006 before a match against Ike Quartey. "A light just turned on in my head."

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Marco Antonio Nazareth, July 22: The 23-year-old boxer dies four days after suffering a brain hemorrhage in a technical knockout loss to Omar Chavez.

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Ed Rudolph, July 19: The former national speedskating champion, pictured here in 1961, was killed in a crash when the driver of a GMC Suburban swerved to avoid a deer and collided with his Acura.

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Sue Burns, July 19: A part owner of the San Francisco Giants and devoted philanthropist, Burns died of complications from lung cancer.

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Arturo Gatti, July 11: The former junior welterweight champion was found dead in a hotel room at the age of 37. Gatti, known for his legendary bouts that electrified fans, participated in Ring Magazine's 'Fight of the Year' a total of four times.

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Rene Capo, July 7: A two-time judo Olympian, Capo also played college football at the University of Minnesota. He was 48.

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Mathieu Montcourt, July 7: The French tennis player was found dead by his girlfriend outside his apartment.

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Lou Creekmur, July 5: The Hall of Fame lineman was known for his tenacious style of play and starred on three Detroit Lions championship teams.

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Steve McNair, July 4: A fan favorite during his 13 years in the NFL, McNair was found dead in a Nashville condo, the victim of a gunshot wound to the head.

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Alexis Arguello, July 1: The former boxing champion, pictured here in 1986, was one of the best junior lightweights to step in the ring.

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It was the mid-'90s when Forrest had his epiphany. He was closing in on 20 professional fights without a loss but didn't have much bank or accolades to show for it. A native of Augusta, Ga., Forrest had planned to jumpstart his pro career in 1992 like Oscar De La Hoya with an Olympic gold medal from the Barcelona Games, but he was easily upset in his opening match and said afterward that he'd been stricken with food poisoning.

Nonetheless, Forrest scrapped together around $80,000 with some other easily touched people, like his hip-hop video friend Ki Toy Johnson, and formed a company called Destiny's Child Inc. Their idea: to provide long-term care to people like the autistic child whose shoestrings he helped tie.

Forrest, who studied business administration at Northern Michigan University, and his partners purchased a suburban Atlanta home in 1996 and retrofitted it for the demands of their business. Destiny's Child, which took in patients from institutions or families that were no longer able to care for them, didn't get any cheaper to finance than it was to start up. This was healthcare, after all, the very industry President Obama and many others are saying is too costly to meet the needs of everyone who should have it and, as a result, needs to be reformed. Forrest was experiencing all of that.

Forrest's payroll grew to include as many as 25 caregivers, coordinators, and administrative staff. There was a $5 million insurance policy as protection against malpractice that he had to pick up. And in 2000, the state of Georgia requested that Forrest's company take in 17 patients who were enrolled in a competing firm that folded. Forrest couldn't say no to the extra patients anymore than he could sit idly by as that autistic kid fought to tie his shoes.

It didn't matter that the increased patient load nearly bankrupted Destiny's Child.

The story continues that, with Forrest at the helm, Destiny's Child picked up the clothing and medical cost for the new patients. Forrest was said to have financed the entire $100,000 rescue operation. It would be six more months before Medicaid payments kicked in.

"One of the things that I always wanted to do is help people out," Forrest told Black Enterprise magazine in March 2003. "But I didn't want to do something cosmetic. I want to know what I do is going to make a difference in somebody's life."

"I didn't want to do something cosmetic. I want to know what I do is going to make a difference in somebody's life."
-- Vernon Forrest By 2003, Black Enterprise stated that Forrest's altruistic venture had 30 patients and generated just over $1 million in annual revenues that were derived mostly from Medicaid reimbursements.

"Our objective as a whole is to make sure nobody is abused or mistreated, and so we try to do right by the people we have there," Forrest told the magazine.

Forrest was standing out in the ring by then, too. He was 35-0 at the end of 2002 after beating Shane Mosley in back-to-back fights to win and retain the World Boxing Council's welterweight title. He was Ring magazine's Fighter of the Year.

That proved to be Forrest's zenith in the ring. He lost for the first time in 2003, twice to Ricardo Mayorga. After battling his way back to a light middleweight title in 2007, he lost it to a star from the boxing reality show The Contender, Sergio Mora, in 2008. He got the belt back in a rematch.

But ultimately Forrest will not be remembered by what he did as a prizefighter. He'll be recalled for what he did as a fighter for people not as fortunate as he was.

Vernon Forrest didn't just sound like one of the good guys in the sport of boxing. He sounded like one of the good guys in sports, period.

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Wednesday, May 6, 2009

WHY DO THE MORALLY CONTEMPT CONTINUALLY TRY TO DICTATE OUR MORAL COMPASS???

Last week I had to apologize to Perez Hilton. After sympathizing with the Miss CA contestant, I had to eat crow once I learned that she was promoting the Gay Marriage Ban Lobby.

I came to her defense because I felt she was being persecuted for her “personal beliefs”, but it’s painfully evident Mr. Hilton is far more familiar with posers than I gave him credit for.

Everyone is entitled to their “personal preferences”, and I think she had every right to answer the question truthfully, instead of giving a politically correct answer. That being said, her decision to stop others from marrying, in her effort to “Protect The Institution of Marriage” is laughable, at best, especially when you consider the Institution of Marriage can only be protected by the “individuals” that make the commitment to be faithful and support one another, in good times, but especially, when things get rocky, not an Organization, the Government, friends, family, or otherwise.

Initially, my sympathy stemmed from “my personal preference”, which is in line with the contestant, but that being said, I don’t think ANYONE has a right to DICTATE who can and cannot marry.

Marriages are destroyed by many factors, primarily, finances, infidelity, incompatibility, and, A LACK of TRUST ~ COMMUNICATION ~ UNDERSTANDING & COMPROMISE. If two people make the decision to commit to one another, who am I to tell them different?

Married couples, and those who profess to “Protect the Institution” need to concentrate on being a better mate to their partner, and letting their actions serve as an example for those who may choose to take that leap of faith. When about 50% of marriages are ending in divorce, it is all too obvious that the heterosexual community has a plethora of work to do, before they can claim the high moral ground in this argument.

As clandestine as it may seem, isn’t it ironic that a week after she made her “true” intentions known to the world, on prime time television nevertheless, that same medium exposed her risqué photo shoot. Supposedly, she was only 17 when the photographs were taken, and although there is NOT one among us who is without sin, or devoid of past transgressions, it speaks volumes as to how the morally contempt, continue to try to DICTATE our moral compass. Posing for nude pics past/present/future, infidelity, and destructive behavior has probably destroyed many more relationships than the gay community can ever hope to match.

Again, don’t throw stones when you live in a glass house, and if you want to make the world a better place, start in your own backyard. God knows the hearts of every SINGLE one of us. We will be judged accordingly, INDIVIDUALLY. What you do in the dark will come to the light, eventually......


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(May 5) - Miss California USA says a revealing photo of herself appearing on the Web is "quite appropriate" for a model, and she has accused the gossip site that posted it of trying to belittle her Christian beliefs.
"I am a Christian, and I am a model," Carrie Prejean said in a statement. "Models pose for pictures, including lingerie and swimwear photos. Recently, photos taken of me as a teenager have been released surreptitiously to a tabloid Web site that openly mocks me for my Christian faith."

Gossip Web site TheDirty.com posted a photo of Miss California USA, Carrie Prejean, wearing only pink panties. The runner-up in April's Miss USA pageant, whose answer to a question about same-sex marriage was highly publicized, said Tuesday the photo was a modeling shot and the site was mocking "my Christian faith." Prejean, now 21, said the photo was taken when she was 17.

A photo of Prejean wearing only pink panties with her back turned to the camera appeared Monday on the gossip blog TheDirty.com. The site claimed it had six pictures of the beauty queen, but one had been posted.

"I can assure you they were quite inappropriate, and certainly not photos befitting a beauty queen," Alicia Jacobs, a judge at the April 19 Miss USA pageant and a reporter for an NBC affiliate, told NBC News.
Prejean, 21, also said in her statement that attacks on her and others who "speak in defense of traditional marriage" are intolerant and offensive.
The Miss USA runner-up garnered more media attention than the winner of the pageant for her response to a question about legalizing same-sex marriage and the dispute with openly-gay judge Perez Hilton that followed it.
Her response may have cost her the title, which went to Miss North Carolina.
During the interview portion of the competition, Hilton, a celebrity blogger, asked Prejean about her views on legalizing same-sex marriage.


“I think it’s great that Americans are able to choose one or the other. We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite marriage,” Prejean answered. “And you know what? I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there, but that’s how I was raised.”

Hilton apparently did take offense and lambasted Prejean on his blog and in the media, suggesting her response may have cost her the crown.

Prejean has been outspoken in defending her answer.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

REVERSE RACISM

I often find contradictions with Religious fanatics/zealots trying to force their beliefs on people, but this $#!+ is getting out of control.

Since when was it politically incorrect to say that "personally" you believe marriage should be between a man and a woman? She "never" said there should be a law banning same sex marriages.

I don't take most of it "literally", but this eerily resembles biblical prophecies that talk about the world becoming upside down in the last days.

For many years homosexuals were persecuted by society, now it's getting to the point where "some" in the Gay community are flaunting their political capital/ new found freedoms, and shoving their lifestyle choices down our throats.

Two wrongs don't make it right. Everyone is entitled to their individual lifestyle preferences, but no one should be demonized, persecuted, passed over, or ostracized for it. Especially when their point of view is exactly how "NATURE" intended it to be.

At the end of the day, your preference is just that, YOUR PREFERENCE. If you forcefully project your way of life onto others, it's just reverse racism, simple and plain......

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Perez Hilton Talks About Miss USA Gay Marriage Question On MSNBC
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When asked by judge Perez Hilton, an openly gay gossip blogger, whether she believed in gay marriage, Miss California, Carrie Prejean, said "We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite. And you know what, I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there, but that's how I was raised."

Keith Lewis, who runs the Miss California competition, tells FOXNews.com that he was "saddened" by Prejean's statement.

"As co-director of the Miss California USA, I am personally saddened and hurt that Miss California believes marriage rights belong only to a man and a woman," said Lewis in a statement.

"I believe all religions should be able to ordain what unions they see fit. I do not believe our government should be able to discriminate against anyone and religious beliefs have no politics in the Miss California family

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Thursday, April 16, 2009

TEA BAGGING THE ELECTORATE...

The term “Tea Bag” normally represents a vulgar sexually explicit act, but given the idiocy, ignorance, and support of a rallying cry, that is so blatantly self defeating to the “Majority” of Americans, I couldn’t think of a more appropriate term to describe the Tea Party movement.

Yesterday’s demonstrations come as no surprise to me {see: Wealth Spreader Misconception & A Sobering Perspective – Blaq Ops 2008 – link below}, they were to be expected. However, it is also a sad reminder of how powerful ignorance can be when it is coupled with preconceived fabrications, hatred, prejudice, and FEAR.

Some members of this “Patriotic / Grass Roots” movement are calling for revolution. I can’t believe they are loosely throwing around the term “Tea Party”, when in actuality, The Boston Tea Party represented the quintessential antithesis of their argument.

King George III provided tax breaks to large corporations, and to the wealthy. The Tea Act, specifically, was protested because duty free licenses were issued to the East India Tea Corporation. Although this allowed the largest corporation at the time to sell more tea, and rake in more profits, in the hopes of averting bankruptcy, the exemption undercut the growing Merchant Class (The Average Joe’s Industry at the time) in America. Meanwhile, taxes sent to the Crown did not equitably service nor represent the populous here at home. Hence the term “Taxation without Representation”, and the revolution was born….. Sound familiar??

The Bush Administration brought about the largest expansion of government in recent history, and infringed on several inalienable rights, again, predicated on fear. They instigated two costly wars, when our special forces should have been used to seek out and kill those cells around the world who were responsible for the 9/11 tragedy, WHEREVER THEY ARE.

They doubled the national debt, and passed legislation (i.e. tax cut) that was beneficial to large corporations, and the elite, but indirectly contributed to more jobs being shipped overseas, a higher cost of living for all Americans, wreckless speculation, and ultimately, the collapse of our financial markets.

Those of us, who believe we would have been better served to allow the markets to collapse, are severely disillusioned. The economy had to be stabilized in order to ensure OUR way of life would not be irreparably damaged further. The rich will never lose. If the market collapsed maybe the market would have rebounded and corrected itself, and without a doubt the affluent among us would have been fine, as a majority of them are now, but think about the other repercussions, our nation could have been crippled by an economic calamity deeper and more catastrophic than the Great Depression, which may have prolonged our economic malaise for the foreseeable future.

Obama is damned if he does, damned if he doesn’t. It’s up to those of us who are enlightened enough to know BS when we see it, to lift our voices in direct opposition to the rhetoric that is being disseminated. The only way I will have a grievance with the actions Obama took to stabilize the markets, is if the bailout money is not returned to the tax payer, with interest, as any bank would expect when they lend money to a consumer, before the bankers start throwing money around again.

Barely 4 months into office, they are equating President Obama to Fascists. They believe he is hell bent on destroying OUR great nation. But the irony of the accusation is that a majority of the people in the crowds who lost their manufacturing jobs, were laid off, have to pay higher taxes now, and are struggling to make ends meet, are the victims of an Administration that they are unwittingly, fighting to restore to power. Ignorance is bliss, but we cannot afford to remain silent. Our collective futures are hanging in the balance. This madness has to stop, or at the very least, be debated with the same amount of passion, as our ill informed brethren from the right.



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1. http://forums.contracostatimes.com/topic/tea-bag-protesters-need-a-history-lesson

Tea Bag Protesters Need A History Lesson
Posted on Friday, 3/20/2009 - 8:27 a.m. PDT — by shays


I may be mistaken, but it appears they are opposed to President Obama allowing the tax cuts introduced by President Bush from expiring, but also opposed to President Obama signing into law the largest middle-class tax cut in history.

This is a major whoops for Glen Beck (et. al.). It turns out that they are politically more in line with King George III than with the American patriots and the Sons of Liberty. The Tea Baggers of today are emulating a protest AGAINST a corporate tax cut by SUPPORTING tax cuts for corporations and the wealthy.


2. http://news.aol.com/article/tea-party-protests/429864

The tea parties were promoted by FreedomWorks, a conservative nonprofit advocacy group based in Washington and led by former Republican House Majority Leader Dick Armey of Texas, who is now a lobbyist.

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Thursday, November 6, 2008
THE WEALTH SPREADER MISCONCEPTION.......
Conservatives, routinely, claim Obama’s liberal agenda (Spread the Wealth) is to “unfairly” tax the rich, and profligately GIVE those funds to the poor classes, that pay no taxes AT ALL. Which is an outright manipulation of the truth.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008
A SOBERING PERSPECTIVE.......
With exactly a week left in the most important national election, in a long time (my lifetime at least), if I see the media focus on one more misguided, aloof, bigoted, racist, narrow minded, dumbed down voter who says, “I’m voting for the Obama because, I hope he will be the Nations first Black President”, I am going to lose my mind!!!!!!! To be brutally honest, I have just as much contempt for those idiots, as the Nazi @$$#*!$ who were arrested yesterday. They were obviously reckless, and stupid, but I am more concerned with those who may have more sophisticated and clandestine plots on their agenda, in an effort to derail progress. I pray to GOD it NEVER happens….

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

REPOST & COMPELLING READ

TUESDAY, JANUARY 22, 2008
NOT A RECESSION... JUST GLOBALIZATION & GREED

What's happening to the economy now, should have been expected. The model of late has been get all you can get at any cost, which is capitalism at it's worst. Without question, capitalism is the best model when compared to the alternatives, but absolute power corrupts, absolutely, and that's exactly what's happening now. The endless pursuit of bottom line profitability has thrown true economic viability to the way side.

With all the dot com bombs, CEO Severances, mergers, buyouts, write offs, and the sub prime lending fiasco; none of this surprises me, at all. The never ending pursuit of increasing the bottom line has no limitations, and it is nothing short of waging a war against the American middle class. Whoever coined that phrase hit it right on the head.

But I can remember debating this very issue with my Economics teacher about 8 years ago, predicting just this type of fall out. Money almost always trickles up. Trickle down is nice in theory, but seldom does it work, nor is it practical.

Why does it make sense to an American business that is under performing to fire the CEO, give him a $100million+ package, take a cash infusion from foreign investors, then lay off workers, in an effort to kick up bigger profits to the shareholders?

That would be the equivalent of someone with bad credit, unnecessarily claiming bankruptcy, getting a phat loan from the bank, then deserting his wife, and giving up all of his children up for adoption, in order to live a more affluent lifestyle. He may be well off now, but his entire family is suffering when he could have easily uplifted everyone, and secured his own future in the process as well.

The American middle class spends more than any other nation in the world. Efficiency should be the emphasis of every organization/individual, not downsizing. When those Americans don't have the money to go to theaters, shopping malls, restaurants, on vacations (domestic), put gas in the car, amusement parks, ball games, etc, etc... Although you might be seeing a bigger profit share now, it's bound to come back down once the projected sales figures come back.

Only now, you have handicapped the spenders, so the only way for you to generate more income is to again restructure your company, make more cutbacks, and take money from investors (domestic/foreign) in order to retain your position in the financial markets. Again, how does that help America as a whole???????

That's why we have so many conspiracy theories. It seems the establishment is in bed with the very ones (i.e. SAUDIS) who wish to suppress this SUPERPOWER. If middle class Americans (the largest tax base in the country) are able to earn a "livable" wage, buy a home, buy a car, take a vacation (domestic), or just pay their bills on time; the profits will continue to pour in, just at a slower rate perhaps, but that's a small price to pay. A vast majority of borrowers, usually repay loans with interest, and it's usually carried out to term.

If I were running for president, I wouldn't insult Americans by giving them a $250 check. Each time they give a CEO a $100million pay day, that's the equivalent of giving over 48,000 working families a $1 an hour pay raise, based on a 40hr work week, which totals over $2K annually, each. Most of that $100 million would go directly back into the economy, as opposed to giving that money to one individual, who puts it in a tax free shelter, where it earns interest, and is only taxed when it is withdrawn, if it isn't protected by a loophole.

Let us work to restore the economy, don't give us a temporary hand out, that fixes nothing at the end of the day. I would encourage American businesses to retain jobs, by giving them a tax credit when they hire, and retain a certain percentage of American workers. The credit would be accrued, and paid out only after they retain at least 95% of that work force, and show significant progress reducing operating costs, for at least 4 years consecutively.

Have you tried calling your telephone company, tech support, or credit card company lately, especially after hours??? Chances are, those jobs have been exported. While that may be profitable in the short term, in the long run it's catastrophic, unless you can get those workers to adopt American spending habits as well. In the process you also lose a huge tax base. Customer service and tech jobs are essential pieces of the economy, especially since manufacturing is leaning heavily towards automation.

Overall, I think a flat tax on all goods and purchases, would be the fairest, and most efficient way to tax everyone equally and end the bickering. The IRS could be redeployed to enforce the flat tax instead of being bogged down trying to decipher thousands of tax codes and loopholes. No more payroll tax, no more itemized deductions, just a flat tax.

However, corruption is inevitable, and no system is fool proof. Globalization is needed to some extent, but what we really need is for everyone to stop being so d*&# greedy. Do we really need to have more than everyone else in order to feel successful? Learning to do more with less (EFFICIENCY) is key to the vitality of our economy, and I am afraid, to the vitality of mankind itself. Enable your citizens to earn a LIVABLE wage, and "WORK" their way out of debt, the benefits will be realized slowly, and steadily, but surely, without a doubt.

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Why hasn't competition come to CEOs?
ASK THIS June 26, 2008
In the 1970s, CEOs made 30 times as much as the average worker; by 2006, it was 370 times as much. All the while, market forces have steadily reduced costs across the board. Why are chief executives immune?

By Henry M. Banta
henrybanta@aol.com

As we are reminded in almost every business story, competition is the great organizing principle of the American economy. It spurs innovation and creativity; it rewards the risk-taking entrepreneur, it is a bulwark of consumer protection; it saves us from the strangulation of government regulation. And above all, it drives down costs and prices. It is the key to the efficiency of our economic system.

The last couple of decades have seen unprecedented competitive market forces. Rapid technological change, falling trade barriers, globalization, deregulation of markets, increased mobility of capital and labor—all have contributed to downward pressure on costs. Virtually every business has felt the competitive pressure and struggled to find cheaper inputs, cheaper labor and lower taxes. Work-forces are downsized; health insurance is cut, and pension plans abolished.

But one cost has been immune from this pressure: the compensation of top management. This issue has gotten a lot of media coverage. The press has eagerly covered the lavish compensation that has been heaped on CEOs, particularly those accused of misdeeds or incompetence. Yet there has been a total failure to ask the simple and obvious question: Why hasn’t competition squeezed management compensation like every other cost?

This is a very important question with serious policy implications. It’s a question the press needs to explore in addressing the problems of corporate governance and economic inequality.
The explosion of management compensation has been extensively documented. In the 1970s CEOs earned 30 times the wages of the average American worker.

By 1993 the CEO compensation had risen to 131 times workers’ wages; and by 2006 it approached 370 times. Bebchuk and Grinstein (of Harvard Law School and Cornell University respectively) found that from 1993 to 1997 the top five executives at each of the 1,500 largest publicly traded corporations cumulatively received $68 billion in salary, bonuses and stock; from 1999 to 2003 this had risen to $122 billion.

They also put the increase in terms of a percentage of earnings, finding that executive compensation was 5 percent of net revenue of their own corporations in 1993 to 1995 and had almost doubled to 9.8 percent in 2001 to 2003.

This issue takes on singular importance in light of the seminal paper by Thomas Piketty and Emmanuel Saez (of the Ecole d’Economie de Paris, and the University of California, Berkeley, respectively), “Income Inequality in the United States, 1913-1998.” (The data in this paper have now been updated through 2006.) The study shows that over the last several decades the United States experienced a massive shift in income to the top of the population. Particularly dramatic is the comparison between the top 1 percent and the remaining 99 percent in the 1993-2000 expansion of the Clinton administration and the 2002-2006 expansion of the Bush administration.

During both expansions, the incomes of the top 1 percent grew extremely quickly at an annual rate over 10.1 and 11.0 percent respectively. However, while the bottom 99 percent of incomes grew at a solid pace of 2.4 percent per year from 1993-2000, these incomes grew less than 1 percent per year from 2002-2006.

Thus, from 2002 through 2006, the top 1 percent captured almost three-quarters of income growth. Unlike in the past when disparity in income could be accounted for by inherited wealth, most of this shift could be accounted for by an increase in management compensation. Piketty and Saez found that now more than four-fifths of the income of the top one percent comes from salaries and self-employment.

It is estimated that the share of wages and salaries earned by the top 1 percent jumped from 5.1 percent in 1970 to 12.0 percent in 2006. The sheer scale of this increase is breathtaking. It is certainly one of the largest shifts in income ever experienced by a major nation.

As Paul Krugman interpreted Piketty’s and Saez’s data:
“...Growth didn’t just bypass the poor and lower middle class, it bypassed the upper middle class too. Even people at the 95th percentile of the income distribution – that is, people richer than 19 out of 20 Americans – gained only modestly. The big increases went only to people who were already in the economic stratosphere.”

In sum, then, we have had a massive shift in income that is largely explained by a massive increase in corporate management compensation. Which brings us back to the basic question: where were the forces of competition when management compensation exploded?

What makes this question so compelling is that those who try and defend the income shift to the very top seem driven to arguments that are conspicuously weak or irrelevant. Their unwillingness to honestly address the question makes one suspect that something important is at stake.

In general the apologists have sought to explain the shift in terms of the income differences between the middle and lower income groups. They uniformly ignore the difference between the very top income bracket – the top 1 percent – and everybody else. The most frequently cited explanation is globalization. According to this argument, labor costs are squeezed by competition from countries with lower labor costs. Workers with less valuable skills are particularly vulnerable to the competition from less wealthy nations. This is true – but irrelevant. It does not even address what has happened at the very top.

Globalization may explain wages tightening at the bottom of the economic ladder, it says nothing about the more substantial increases at the top. Why should a squeeze of the lower end of the income scale result in a massive increase at the top? Has any board of directors ever justified its management compensation policy by claiming, “The Chinese made us do it”?

Another frequent explanation is that the management was worth it. There has been a quite lively debate over whether management compensation is related to performance. The best that can be said about this claim of correlation between compensation and performance is that it is very weak. Justification of an income shift of such historic proportions should be supported by better evidence. For example, there is the problem of timing.

Business Week noted that 1996 was a very good year: The Standard & Poor’s 500-stock index rose 23 percent, and corporate profits rose 11 percent. But the average salary and bonus for a CEO rose “a phenomenal 39 %” – to $2.3 million. When retirement benefits, incentive plans, and gains from stock options were added in the average total compensation rose to “an astounding 54 %”– to $5,781,300.”

It is worth noting that the anecdotal evidence on CEO compensation is replete with examples of blunderers and miscreants whose pay soared into the tens of millions. Of course if management was worth so much, it logically follows that everybody else got so little because that was all they were worth. For a period in which productivity was growing, this argument has a lot to overcome. Indeed the notion that the efforts of all of the computer programmers, store managers, physicists, chemical engineers, dentists, school teachers, construction workers, etc., made only a small contribution to growth is very close to silly.

The current favorite argument of the apologists of CEO pay is that it is all a matter of education. This thesis was recently propounded by no less an economist than N. Gregory Mankiw. It was supported by research showing that income is reflective of education. Mankiw acknowledges the growth in inequality at the very top, but quickly turns the discussion to the gaps at the middle and bottom of the scale.

It does not require a lot of economic research to show that more education results in higher income. But again, this is not the issue. It defies reason and good sense to claim the huge income difference between the top one tenth of one percent of the population and every one else is the result of education. As Krugman noted, “What we’re seeing isn’t the rise of a fairly broad class of knowledge workers. Instead, we’re seeing the rise of a fairly narrow oligarchy: income and wealth are becoming increasingly concentrated in the hands of a small, privileged elite.” He cited the 2006 Economic Report of the President which found that the real earnings of college graduates fell by more than 5 percent between 2000 and 2004. Between 1975 and 2004 their earnings rose by less than 1 percent per year. He noted that CEOs and school teachers have about the same amount of education.

International comparisons of management compensation offer no solace to the apologists for American corporate salaries. The explosion in compensation is, as a general proposition, largely confined to the English-speaking world: the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, with the United States well ahead of the other two nations.

No one has yet claimed that continental European and Japanese CEOs are immune from the forces of globalization, less competent or productive, or are just not as well educated as their American counterparts.

We are, therefore, left with the question: Why was management compensation immune from the cost-squeezing forces of competition? Where are the media on the question?

Henry M. Banta is a partner in the Washington, DC, law firm of Lobel, Novins & Lamont.
E-mail: henrybanta@aol.com

Friday, February 27, 2009

DOMESTIC DISTURBIA: DOUBE EDGED STANDARDS

I would like to begin by stating that; I DO NOT KNOW THE DETAILS OF THE CHRIS BROWN/RIHANNA CASE. That being said, it appears that we now live in an increasingly “double standard” society, where chivalry only applies when it is advantageous to women.

Take the aforementioned case for instance, no one, outside of the individuals involved, and a handful of people, have ALL the “facts” in this case, yet, even before the Rihanna pic was released, there was a plethora of condemning statements, blogs, and articles directed at Chris.

If true, the mere insinuation Rihanna is purportedly contemplating taking him back says it all. She is either glutton for punishment, accepts partial responsibility for the “incident”, suffers from low self esteem, straight crazy, or, all of the above.

Now understand, I don’t condone anyone putting their hands on anyone, much less a woman, without probable cause, but, until the ALL THE FACTS come out, shouldn’t we withhold judgment/condemnation?

Secondly, in the event a man is assaulted by a woman, without physical provocation, does he ever have a right to defend himself?

Granted, a man should never use excessive force, and that very well may be the case in this instance, but he should have every right to retaliate/defend himself with equal force, if his rights are being violated, irrespective of gender.

All the man bashers need to fall back!!! You’re entitled to your opinion, but don’t bury the kid until BOTH versions of the truth are revealed.

The movement to liberate women has made tremendous strides within the past three decades, and rightfully so, but it appears society and the Law has overreacted/overcorrected, and due to the sins of our forefathers, lady liberty’s pendulum has swung unanimously, in favor of the fairer sex.

I’m not going to pretend that men still do not hold an unflattering share of guilt in a majority of domestic abuse cases, but sometimes, women have used the situation to their advantage, and exploited the law, with impunity.

There's a grey area, i.e. if you're being playful, or if someone is crowding you during an argument, but don't overstep your boundaries, and whatever you do, don't raise your hand to a man, if you don't want to get pounded out like a man..... And trust me, I have had my fair share of incidents. Last time, if it weren't for my past experience, maturity, and my level of sobriety, I would have probably done something very similar.

Proportionally, men are physically stronger than women, but in the spirit of equality, shouldn’t we have ensured that the rights of both sexes are equally protected by law, when the laws were being written?

Again, I do not know, and don’t pretend to know the details of any particular case, but for arguments sake, we need to treat each other as equals, with dignity, respect, and, within the law, period. Especially in regards to the people we profess to love. That’s the only way we will ever attain true equality, for all.

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Wednesday, February 18, 2009

NY POST: WHAT WERE THEY THINKING?? - S. DELONAS

Dear NY Post,

As an independent Black man, I have often grappled with the idea, and in certain cases, found validity to the arguments that "some" African Americans use Racism as a crutch for social inequities.

That being said, there has been endless debate recently in regards to the continued celebration of Black History month, and ending affirmative action programs due to the "apparent" advancements/progress our nation, as a whole, has made in regards to racial equality, however, if S. Delonas' cartoon is any indication, clearly, racism is alive, well, and more subliminally sophisticated than many of us are readily willing to admit.

If this piece is any indication, as a society, we still have A LOT of work to do. It is painfully evident that "progress" has eluded the decision makers at the New York Post, and the grievances of those who relentlessly continue to fight for racial equality has been vindicated as well.

Sean Delonas’ depiction of a monkey being shot dead, followed by the caption "They'll have to find someone else to write the next stimulus bill" is offensive, particularly to Black people. Not to mention the current Commander in Chief, who happens to be an extremely well educated, well spoken individual of color, a refreshing dose of optimism for all Americans, and the world abroad.

http://www.nypost.com/gossip/gossip.htm (2/18/09 Cartoon by S. Delonas)


I have read the Post and the Daily News virtually every single weekday, for over 7 years, and although some of your cartoons/articles are controversial, this is the first time I have ever felt OVERWHELMINGLY OFFENDED by one of your pieces. I asked the opinions of many of my peers before writing this letter, and not one person, of any race, could justify this piece, or deny it's racial connotations.

If someone from your organization does not publicly denounce the piece, make an attempt to clarify Sean's intent, and/or apologize for the sheer offensive nature of this cartoon, I am afraid you will lose many of your subscribers, and I personally, will lead the campaign encouraging everyone within my social network to discontinue reading your paper, immediately!!!!!

In light of this year’s historic election, and the Bi-Centennial commemoration of Abraham Lincoln, this is a slap in the face to all people of color, and should be reprehensible to ALL forward thinking/intelligent HUMAN BEINGS.

Sincerely,
Patrick C. Montero
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Thursday, February 12, 2009

FABRICATED OUTRAGE: A-ROID

Lately, there has been no shortage of headline furor directed at the celebrities that satiate our daily appetites for entertainment/drama, and serve as our national punching bags when they screw up, but the outrage is overrated, and disingenuous to say the least.

A-Rod
This guy can’t get out of his own way, granted, but the sheer amount of criticism he receives, borrowing a quote from Iron Mike, is ludicrous. I make no excuses for his bad choices, his personality flaws, how much money he makes, or the fact that he has not been part of a championship in his illustrious career, however, to act as if his bad judgment has profoundly compromised the “integrity” of the game is hypocritical, at best.

How soon we forget. The steroid era helped MLB reemerge as one of our nation’s favorite past time. Prior to Mark McGuire and Sammy Sosa’s epic quest for the home run crown, the league was practically on life support. True, the players method of enhancing their natural ability was CHEATING, AND ILLEGAL, but ANYONE with half a brain knew these guys were juicing.

At the time, MLB turned a blind eye; they did not sound the alarm internally or otherwise. If they took the initiative to clean house, implemented more stringent drug testing, and put the players on notice right off the bat (no pun intended), perhaps they would have been able to redeem the league's integrity, and they would have suffered minimal collateral damage, even if their efforts were leaked afterwards.

Some in the media, and the “regular joes” have been making outlandish accusations. They act as though these players are the dregs of society. They question how much money A-Rod makes, but if they could afford to pay him $25mil a year, the rest of the team, operating costs, luxury tax, etc, the question they should be asking is, how much money are the owners making off the game.

Without a doubt, the players were wrong for using PED’s, but people are making statements as if “anyone” could simply inject performance enhancing drugs, and ta-da, they would become All Stars overnight as well……. WRONG! The players are the performers, they are the ones the fans come to see, and they have every right to a fair share of the revenue the game generates.

I played with guys juicing in High School, and guess what, the guys that did not have the skills to compete at the highest level, sat on the bench, whether they were clean or not. Most of the big names snared in this controversy were great before they started using. They may have cheated but they were NEVER talentless bums.

Without a doubt, the drugs enhanced their natural abilities, but as we can see A LOT of athletes in general, cheated in order to live up to the immense challenges, expectations, and pressures, to remain at the top of their game. Once you’re incapable of performing, they will put you out to pasture, quickly, and no one sheds a tear for them, besides their fanatics.

I long for the day, society in general, will be sincere, and reserve judgment when anyone screws up. Introspect a bit, analyze your life or the lives of people you know and/or love personally, and use that bad example as an opportunity to correct any similar inequities, instead of piling on.

Yes, celebrities make an enormous amount of money, they are privileged, some of them ignorant, and the spotlight is part of the game, but never forget, no matter how god like they may appear to be, at the end of the day they are mortals, and they are individuals, just like every single one of US.

The game of life can be treacherous, and for these athletes, the spotlight is alluring, entrapping, but ultimately, brief. When critics use a celebrity’s demise as an opportunity to totally destroy their character, to me, it only reveals their inner most insecurities, jealous nature, and hateful tendencies.

Just hope and pray that karma does not creep up and expose your shortcomings to the world abroad. Lord knows, we all have flaws, as does every individual on this planet, WE’RE ALL imperfect by nature, and rightfully so, but we all aspire to be great in our own way, but sometimes the chosen path leads us astray.

Ultimately, demonizing icons/celebrities does NOTHING to improve YOUR life. At the end of the day that responsibility is solely up to you, despite your profession, wealth or lack thereof, your background, upbringing, physical characteristics/impairment, environment, etc.

Always remember, don’t throw stones whether or not you live in a glass house.


Yours truly,
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Thursday, February 5, 2009

NO SECRET....

I've said it long ago, a superstar is all this team is lacking, period! Although Hell Week has started off 0-2, and despite the organization's bumbling of the Marbury situation, I am confident this team is "constantly" improving, and should get their first taste of the playoffs this year.

If the core continues to develop their game individually, and, within the D'Antoni system, once we land an SUPERSTAR, sky is the limit. Mark my words......

I only hope I am financially capable to witness the re-emergence of the Franchise, first hand, when it happens.

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BERNARD DREAMS OF GARDEN'S FUTURE KING 2/05/09 NY POST

Reached at his home in Atlanta, King, who watched Bryant's historic night on television, told The Post it would be "phenomenal" if the KnicksNew York Knicks can sign King James in 2010.

"The Knicks need a superstar," said King, the Brooklyn-born forward who is still a big Knicks fan. "They should always have a superstar like LeBron. Being in New York, the biggest media capital in the world, it would be phenomenal. It's something I would love to see. The Knicks deserve to be mentioned in the top echelon of the league. LeBron would be a perfect fit in the offense because D'Antoni would love to run with him."




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Let's just hope karma doesn't derail the potential of a superstar coming to the club in 2010. Obviously, the league is privy to the way the organization treated Steph, and although he was a perennial malcontent, he did not deserve to be ostracized like that.

He did everything they asked of him in the off/pre season, they should have given him enough rope to hang himself, but the organization jumped the gun, which has transformed him into sort of a "martyr" in the eyes of many around the league.

That being said, the current cast of players on this team are primed for championships, we just need that "ONE" piece. Hopefully, time will grant the organization clemency, and All Stars will once again gravitate back to the biggest Basketball stage in the world.

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STAR IS NOT KEEN ON GUTTED TEAM 2/05/09 NY POST

The Knicks traded away their two leading scorers, frantically trying to clear salary cap space for the 2010 free-agent class that is headlined by LeBron James and includes Dwyane Wade and Chris Bosh. King James offered them both a tantalizing reminder of what they're chasing, and a warning of how not to get him.

"It all depends on what type or caliber of players you have. And if you're a team that you feel is trying to build toward the future, then I definitely would," James said. "If I was in that position and I felt like our team was geared toward the future and not the present,

I'd try to put myself in a position where I at least had a chance to get a big market player.

"But you don't want to just trash the season you have, and disrespect the players you have on the team. . . . It would be a tough decision for me if I was running a team."